Highs and Lows of Relationships are like the ocean; there are high tides and low tides.
When we are at our highs, we feel happy, engaged, connected, and safe. We are resourceful and can give much of ourselves to our partner. We share passion, intimacy, and fun. We can also use that energy to create and move things forward.
When we are at our low tide, we feel vulnerable and closed. We have doubts, fears, and the future seems dark and uncertain. Low tides expose what's been hiding underneath the surface. We can walk on the wet sand and explore what has been exposed. We can examine what was hidden below the surface or just sit and wait until the high tide covers it again; it's our choice.
But what if instead of trash, we find shiny treasures that were lost long ago? What if we could be courageous with our partner and go there, discovering valuable things to bring home?
Is it ok to experience Highs and Lows of Relationships?
We all live under the moon, the stars, and the higher energies of this world. We all experience highs and lows of relationships and it's not always up to us to change our physical or emotional response to them. But we can choose not to run from uncomfortable feelings but instead, explore them, embrace them, and find new meaning within them.
Highs and Lows of Relationships are just like high tide and low tide of the ocean. It is natural, enviable, and very human.
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Anna Morgan, a dating coach, guides young men who are overwhelmed by the dating app maze in finding authentic, meaningful relationships. She offers 1:1 coaching sessions, as well as empowering dating profile photos for online presence. Contact Anna and schedule a free discovery call with a dating expert. See you on the bright side of dating!